♥ Golf Attire ♥

Question: 

Help!
A pot has invited me to golf with him at his country club. What the hell do I wear? I have never been golfing.

Have no fear. 

Hair

Keep it simple.

Wind might be blowing and hair everywhere can get frustrating when you are "attempting" to golf. 

Low Bun

 Makeup

Minimal will suffice.

A fresh face, light mascara and a nudish-pink lip.
Don't forget sunscreen!!

Example:

A little less blush

Attire

Check out what the weather will be like for that day.

 

Spring (warmer)

If it is warmer stick to cute shorts, polo's, dresses and skirts.

Examples:

Spring (cooler)

If it is cooler go with well-fitted trousers, polo's, sweaters and breathable jackets.

Examples:

 Footwear
Comfortable GOLFING shoes. Check them out here.

Accessories

*Optional*

Fitted cap
Sunglasses
Golfing gloves

Example:

Make sure to AVOID making that face lol

Overall, just have fun and wear comfortable (and appropriate) clothing.


Until next time...

Xoxo,
Ethnic Sugar Barbie

♥ Sugar Motivation ♥

Sometimes I just feel like giving up on the sugar search.

These things always seem to motivate me to continue...

or just provide me with a good laugh :)

Khloe Kardashian shoe closet

Mercedes-Benz SLK

Luxury penthouse condo

MONEEEEY lol

  

That is all

☠ Why I don't give Pots a name ☠

THIS is the reason I do not give potential sugar daddies a nickname. Remember me getting ready a few days ago for a date with a pot (here)? For the sake of this post I will call him Mr. Flaker.   

Background

I met Mr. Flaker while on SA where he sent me a message around December of last year. We talked back and forth and he SEEMED like a nice guy. I verified his information...yada yada yada...he checked out. We then set a day for our first meet. I asked if we could meet at a local Starbucks and he agreed. He showed up and we had a great time. We agreed to meet again to discuss the arrangement expectations in detail. This meet was supposed to be at a local restaurant later that December. On my way to the restaurant he txts that he can't make it due to something regarding work. I'm like WTF- wasted gas money. He apologized and wanted to schedule for another day. I agreed. On my way AGAIN to the restaurant he sends me this message:   

"Hey, I think I'm going to pull back my search for now, and put this all on hold.  I have a really busy quarter coming up for work, and I just don't think I'm going to have time to see anyone.  I'm really sorry if I've wasted your time."

Damn skippy you wasted my time!!!
I'm steaming at this point, but I replied:

“Alright. Best of luck.”

Fast forward to February 2

He sends me this message:

“Hey, things have freed up for me a bit and would love to pursue something if you still are interested and are still looking.

Best,

Mr. Flaker”

In my head I’m like FUCK OFF. 

I told him he’d have a lot of making up to do, but like an idiot I agreed to give him one more chance. We met for dinner to catch up (I told him I have since moved 2 hours away: which I have). A few days later he sends me this load of crap:

“I met someone from Chicago last night that I am going to enter into a relationship with.  While I really liked you and wanted to wait, given the distance, I don't think it makes sense.  If you disagree, let me know.”

SERIOUSLY.
F*$K..
S^!t..
A$$H0L3..
D@MM!t..

 

I respond:

“Wow, how foolish of me to think you would keep your word this time. Lol That's fine. Best of luck in your new arrangement.”

If I disagree let you know?! Ummmm. NO. I’m not pleading my case to you. 

Rant

I'm getting tired of flakes. They are really getting the best of me. I try to be happy for everyone else-which I am-but I want a "Congrats girl" message too. I want the feeling of accomplishment (I do well IRL, but unsuccessful in the sugar world). 

Hopefully, my day is coming soon.

Until next time...

Xoxo,
Ethnic Sugar Barbie

♥ Wishlist ♥

 *My wish list*

I have to stop myself from drooling!

✘ Hervé Léger Swimsuit

✘ Personal Trainer

✘ Proenza Schouler bag

PS1 Medium Bag in Neon Coral

✘ Gift Cards

Zara, Neiman Marcus and Topshop

Over $500

✘ Water Ionizer

I can dream!  

Until next time...

Xoxo,
Ethnic Sugar Barbie

♥ The Sugar Doll Survival Kit ♥

Survival kit you say?! 

Yes.

After trial and error I have found that certain products/items are detrimental on sugar dates. I'm going to keep this short and sweet.

✔ Compact Mirror

Every lady should carry some sort of mirror on her at all times. God forbid you have a booger hanging from your nostril. ☹ If you have an iPhone you can always use the FaceTime camera.

✔ Mascara

You should already know to carry this in your purse. I LUUUUURVE (yes, lurve) Maybelline Falsies!

Here is a before and after using Maybelline Falsies. What a difference!

✔ Breath mints/Gum

Self-explanatory. 

(Especially after consuming anything with onions or garlic) 

✔ Defensive weapon of choice

You never know what some of these men may try. You need to be prepared. I prefer a pocket knife or pepper spray. Please DO NOT go around spraying or stabbing innocent people. I will not be held responsible. I have this mace gun at home:

Sooo cute, right?

✔ Perfume (sample size)

Lets not carry 3.4 ounces of perfume in our purse. Your local Sephora store should be able to give you a sample size of your favorite perfume of choice. It should look something like this:

  

✔ Vaseline (Petroleum Jelly)

I love this stuff! It can be used as a lip balm, rubbed on ASHY body parts, dull mani's (Just wipe on your fingernails for a last minute nail-pick-me-up), etc.

✔ Tide Pen

Spilling hot chocolate on your WHITE shirt is never a good thing. Luckily, I had my bf's Tide pen in my purse and it worked perfectly fine. I carry it with me everywhere now.

✔ Business Cards

Do I really have to tell you why to get business cards? Perhaps one with your name on the front and your Google number on the back. You can get them dirt cheap at Vistaprint. SIMPLE.

Last but not least...

✔ Counterfeit Pen

I went on a date with a pot that gave me $200 just for meeting. Later that day while trying to buy a dress at Nordstroms I found out one of the bills were indeed FAKE. Ugh. The humiliation. Now I carry this baby EVERYWEHRE. You can buy them cheap here!

Until next time...

Xoxo,
Ethnic Sugar Barbie

♥ Victoria Beckham Inspired ♥

Hello Sugar Dolls

*waves*

I have a date with a potential sugar daddy tonight (7pm). We are going to an upscale restaurant in my neighborhood. This man claims to be a refined gentleman with conservative taste. I have decided what I will wear, how my hair will be styled and how my makeup will look.

OUTFIT:

 I chose this style because it is sexy yet conservative.

Victoria Beckham

Here is an example:

Skater Dress: Miss Selfrdige $65

Cropped Blazer: Miss Selfridge $70

Platfrom Pumps: Miu Miu $645

HAIR:

I opted for a bed-head BUN hairstyle below:

Vanessa Hudgens

Here is a video tutorial:

MAKEUP:

Since he has made it known he likes a natural beauty; I have chosen to stick to a sun kissed face, falsies and pinkish-nude lips.

Similar to:

Jennifer Lopez

Here is a video tutorial:

Men are visual beings.

What you decide to wear, look and act determines how they will treat you.

I usually try to keep it classy with a hunt of sexy.

Okay I have to get ready.

Until next time...

Xoxo,
Ethnic Sugar Barbie

♥ Very First Post ♥

It was about two years ago when I first saw the late night commercial for Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies. Although I cannot remember the company, I will never forget the commercial. They featured "real" customers that were satisfied with the service provided on the website. One women boasted that she received over $120,000 from her sugar daddy over the course of a year. Another sugar baby received a new Mercedes Benz for her birthday and her Ivy-League tuition fully paid for. There I sat on my couch filled with envy. Thought to myself, "Why struggle when I can have a guy support my lifestyle too?"

Within the next few months I learned everything I could about being a sugar baby. There weren't too many resources, just a few blogs on the lifestyle. I signed up for SA and began messaging numerous men in an attempt to find a sugar daddy QUICK. Looking back I'm sure the men could smell my desperation a mile away. I never found a sane, reliable sugar daddy on that site (and others).

*Editors note: I give up very easily, but I'm working on it*

...fast forward to today...

I'm very on and off with this lifestyle. One moment I'm pursuing Sugar, the next I'm fed up. I have yet to find a sugar daddy that is everything I'm looking for. *I swear I'm not THAT picky*

This blog will likely consist of:

My personal experiences within the sugar bowl

Fashion, health and beauty tips

Random shit!!!

I will not give out sugar baby tips until I am aware they actually work. Who am I to tell you what works and doesn't work when I do not have a successful arrangement myself?! Exactly. However, I have schooling in Skincare (read: Esthetician). Therefore, I feel I am knowledgable enough to give skin and healthcare tips. I've also been featured on a few fashion sites (nothing major). In other words, I feel I am comfortable enough to give fashion advice as well. I will also use this blog to brush up on my writing. I HATE writing. Now math, I LOVE. *So excuse me if there grammatical and spelling errors galore, I'm working on it.* 

Until next time...

Xoxo,
 Ethnic Sugar Barbie